Love Without Boundaries is Just Trauma With a Smile

Shawn Hesmatpour

Published on: 24/07/2025

The moment I gave myself permission to be an asshole… was the moment I finally became a leader. Now before your ego grabs the wheel. I’m not talking about throwing tantrums. I’m not talking about being reactive, loud, or emotionally...

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I Don’t Abandon Myself to Keep the Peace Anymore

Shawn Hesmatpour

Published on: 29/05/2025

Let’s talk about that one friend. You know the one. They get weird when you’re not available. Suddenly, you’re “acting different,” or “not showing up like you used to.” And now you’re in a silent emotional courtroom defending yourself against...

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How To Love Without Being Needy

Shawn Hesmatpour

Published on: 19/03/2025

I know what it’s like to feel needy in relationships because I used to be that guy. I would over-text women and even hit them up more when they wouldn’t reply. I’d feel upset and discouraged when a woman ended things. I’d get down on myself when a...

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Why Women Respect Men Who Know Their Worth

Shawn Hesmatpour

Published on: 13/02/2025

We all want respect. Not the kind you demand from others. Not the kind you manipulate your way into receiving. But the kind that flows naturally because of who you are. The kind that women notice without you saying a word. So many people live a...

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